Change is a transitive verb, defined as passage from one state, stage, subject, or place to another, also as a movement, development, or evolution from one form, stage, or style to another.
By it’s very definition it’s obvious that change isn’t something that lasts, it’s not meant to. It exists only in transition.
Unfortunately, there is no way to predict how long this transition will take, or whether it will be painful…but the most important thing to remember is that it will definitely take longer and be far more painful if we resist it. No matter how badly we may not want this change, if we embrace it we allow our lives to refresh, to revive.
Coz the man who doesn’t fight himself or his circumstances wakes up with a renewed spirit to conquer the next mountain that awaits his climb. The man who doesn’t resist but simply surrenders and allows the change to pass, ironically finds himself in charge again! Only he is ‘whole’